"You may resist learning the lesson of forgiveness because sometimes it feels good to blame people for their mistakes. It makes you feel superior and righteous when you can look down your nose and hold a grudge toward someone who has wronged you. However, harboring resentment consumes a lot of energy. Why waste valuable energy [...]

We are a group of women, and men, who believe that children need and deserve fully functioning, natural, loving, dedicated relationships with both of their parents, equally, in and out of marriage. We think divorce is tragic enough without children losing one of the two most important people in their lives. We are, or care [...]

I’d like to share with you a new web site devoted to David Chick, the UK’s Spiderman Dad spidermandad.com
Thanks to Glenn Sacks at hisside.com

This doesn’t add up. The radical gender feminists tell us that men are poor care-givers, that only women know how to do hands-on parenting. They say that men never do their fair share of child care while in the relationship, so why should they get joint custody after the relationship breaks up. Hmmm…
I guess they [...]

It is with a very heavy heart and mascara-tainted tear stains on my cheeks that I have to tell you that AB 1307, California’s shared parenting bill, was murdered today. I now understand exactly what the fathers have described when they write about sitting there listening to the opposition lying. It was obvious [...]

This piece by our friend Doug Mead deserves repeating.
Column sparks ire of many
IMAGINE A little girl growing up without her dad. She misses him. She wonders why he doesn’t come by anymore. There is a longing in her heart that won’t go away. She cries herself to sleep at night.
Imagine the dad, a good and [...]

26 April 2005
Gender Equality Lacking in Child Custody
I’d like to comment on Feminism is Simply Equality by Maggie Downing,
published April 12, 2005.
Feminism used to stand for equality. In today’s world it stands for
domination.
Just look at the child custody issue. Even in California, where joint
physical custody has been law for 25 years, 70 percent [...]

Well, you all know I’m gonna pitch a fit about this one.
Pitch, pitch pitch!!!
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Center for Gender Equity makes some more equal than others
Phillip Matier, Andrew Ross
Wednesday, April 27, 2005
UCSF’s Center for Gender Equity hosts its annual “Take Our Daughters
and Sons to Work Day” on Thursday — but judging from the list of
activities being offered, [...]

“When I went to court, I was completely ignored. The judge did not acknowledge my presence at all…I had no problem with what my ex said…we filled them out and filed them together.
But the judge, later on, on his own, changed things in the final decision that my ex and I did not know [...]

Welcome to Feminist4Fathers!
The time has come for all good women to stand up for all good men, in the BEST interest of all children.
I’ll be back…….
Teri